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r/relationship_advice

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Top posts this week

The 10 highest-scored posts from the last 7 days — ranking by real score over a week naturally filters out posts that got removed shortly after posting.

PostScorePosted
I (41F) can’t get over what boyfriend (M45) said in front of everyone34366d ago
My (soon to be) ex-wife (28F) cheated and got pregnant with the other man's baby and I (28M) am having a hard time maintaining a civil relationship with her in the aftermath?23146d ago
36M 32F Wife has wealthy parents, and I’m struggling with the fact that I have to work while my family vacations without me.16616d ago
My (M40) wife (F36) wants to tell our son on his 18th birthday about his real father and my life is falling apart. And It’s not just about my son. How can I stop her?15447d ago
I (43F) have been quietly planning to leave my husband (45M). Now I found remote access software on my laptop and I am scared.14986d ago
Update: My BF (30M) admitted to me (26F) my accidental pregnancy isn’t so accidental, despite me being child free. Where do I go from here?14936d ago
My grandmother (60F) has turned on me (18F) because I moved out and won't let my mom (35F) force my stepsister (18F) into my life anymore?11146d ago
My husband (52 M) wants to control where I (51 F) buy a second home for myself with money I am using from my inheritance. I am deeply hurt.6626d ago
Wife (F37) has OCD and refuses help. I (M40) dont know what to do, especially now that we have a newborn6587d ago
My drunk gf (20f) wouldn’t leave my flatmate (21M) alone last night, possible flirting or misunderstanding?5766d ago

Posting rules

  • Posts must contain a title, description, TLDR, & basic info like ages, genders
  • All posts must request specific advice on a specific, real situation between two or more people
  • No questions that can be answered with yes or no (aka moral judgment)
  • Things This Sub Can't Give Advice On:
  • Only One Update Is Allowed
  • Surveys, Academic Research, Information Requests, and Media Questions Should Be Sent to Modmail
  • All comments must be on topic, and focus on the OP, and be made in good faith
  • Keep It Civil
  • No referencing hateful or abusive subs/individuals/content
  • Do not directly message users
  • No situations involving people under 18

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  -H "x-api-key: ts_live_YOUR_KEY"

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