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r/relationship_advice

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Top posts this week

The 10 highest-scored posts from the last 7 days — ranking by real score over a week naturally filters out posts that got removed shortly after posting.

PostScorePosted
My (21M) girlfriend (20F) says she loves our 7-month-old daughter but misses her old life and doesn’t want to be a mom anymore. I don't know what to do.16858d ago
Girlfriend (25F) stays in her car for 30mins-1hour before coming into the house (M30) sometimes. What does this mean?13186d ago
My M27 boyfriend is complaining about having to give me F33 oral sex before we have sex. Is this something anyone else struggles with and if so how?8098d ago
Ex (46F) Wants Her New Husband To Adopt Our Son (17M).5447d ago
I (21F) finally told my longtime friend (21M) I was romantically interested in him. His response was... interesting. Where do I go from here?4678d ago
My M24 girlfriend F22 decided to take custody of her brother, how do i process this?3407d ago
My boyfriend (20M) wants to watch me (19F) have sex with others infront of him3176d ago
My (40F) husband (50M) shows no empathy when I'm sick. What can I do?3147d ago
Missing condom (25M) from my gf (24F)3118d ago
Fast forward 40 years: healthy 45F and unhealthy 46M. Would you put up with this?2896d ago

Posting rules

  • Posts must contain a title, description, TLDR, & basic info like ages, genders
  • All posts must request specific advice on a specific, real situation between two or more people
  • No questions that can be answered with yes or no (aka moral judgment)
  • Things This Sub Can't Give Advice On:
  • Only One Update Is Allowed
  • Surveys, Academic Research, Information Requests, and Media Questions Should Be Sent to Modmail
  • All comments must be on topic, and focus on the OP, and be made in good faith
  • Keep It Civil
  • No referencing hateful or abusive subs/individuals/content
  • Do not directly message users
  • No situations involving people under 18

Pull this with the API

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curl
curl "https://api.threadsnoop.com/v1/posts?subreddit=relationship_advice&limit=25" \
  -H "x-api-key: ts_live_YOUR_KEY"

See /docs/posts for pagination, filtering with q=, and full response shape, or /docs/subreddits for the rules endpoint used above.

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